Lasting Memories
Frederick McKenzie Miller
March 19, 1931-Sept. 10, 2016
Menlo Park, California
Frederick McKenzie Miller (Fred) passed away peacefully in his home with family by his side on September 10, 2016, following an eight-month battle with pancreatic cancer.
Fred was born on March 19, 1931, in Peoria, Illinois, and graduated from Episcopal High School in Alexandra, Virginia in 1949. He graduated from Dartmouth College in 1953, where he was a member of Sigma Alpha Epsilon.
Following graduation, he joined the U.S. Air Force, attending Officer Candidate School at Lackland Air Force Base, and upon graduation in 1954 served as a Nuclear Weapons Officer in the Air Force.
In 1957 Fred joined IBM in Poughkeepsie, New York, and advanced in his career from the industrial engineering staff to production and planning for IBM’s computer systems, to a series of assignments in strategic market research, business analysis, long-range forecasting, and corporate management planning.
Fred met Betty Ann Knickmeyer while working for IBM in Poughkeepsie. They were married in St. Louis in May 31, 1958, and in 1963 they made their home in Stamford, Connecticut, where they raised their two children, Martha and George.
Ever the history buff, the family spent many vacations touring historical sites all over the U.S. Fred was active in Boy Scouts, First Presbyterian Church, and Long Ridge Swim Club.
He retired from IBM in 1987 to care for Betty, who died in 1988. In 1991, during a trip to California and a hike in the woods, Fred met Kayleen Simmons and they were married in March 1992, when he moved to Menlo Park, California.
Fred and Kayleen traveled extensively, including backpacking to First Camp near Mount Everest and to Machu Picchu.
Other cherished memories include years playing tennis and relaxing poolside at the University Club in Palo Alto, and annual trips to Palm Springs and Newport Beach, California.
Fred enjoyed tennis, traveling, backpacking, hiking, theater and symphonies, sneaking chocolate treats, and Stanford football games.
Most of all, Fred enjoyed time with his family and friends. He was known by the many people who knew and loved him as a gregarious, loyal, and devoted friend.
Fred is survived by his wife, Kayleen; daughter, Martha Feeback (Lowell Seaton); son, George Miller (Stacy); grandson, Austin Taylor; granddaughter, Kristin Feeback; step-daughter, Gina Chapman (Robert); step-son, Mark Simmons; step-granddaughter, Harriet Chapman; and step-grandson, Charles Chapman.
His family wishes to extend their gratitude to the staff of Pathways Hospice for their compassion and care as he battled and then lived his final months fully and at peace with cancer.
All are invited to a memorial reception at the Miller home, 2:00 p.m. Saturday, Oct. 1, to celebrate Fred’s life. In lieu of flowers donations can be made online to Pathways Hospice, pathwayshealth.org.
We'll never forget the spirited and fun-filled times we have spent over the many years with you. See further thoughts in our recent letter to Kayleen and family.
In raising our glasses with your Favorite--although unique vintage-- Of a distinctive a Sauvignon....We Think was that 1931 Miller Family Swill(bottled on your 80th B.C.E.) We know you are joining us from That celestial cellar, where you Relax after a spirited doubles with The Seraphim/Cherubim gang. Phi Alphas from afar are raising Their Minerva handshake to your Diligent efforts to keep the N.H. Alpha house sufficiently "in the Bonds" The McKelben Room Will never have a more accommodating propriator!
We are so sorry about Fred's passing. He was a wonderful man. We will prey for you and your family. Lots of love,,,,,
The first welcome to Poppy Avenue was from Kayleen and Fred- with a bottle of "poppy vino." During our five years on Poppy our girls would run over to see Fred! You loved sharing in their bdays..Bella's pickle party! Before long, you became our "Freddy." Thank you for sharing your extension cords for our Xmas lights. Every year I asked for your cords and ok, your ladder too! You brought us so much joy. Forever in our hearts. ?? Love, Schmitz Family Kelly, Randy, Sophia and Bella